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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been an OW in the past. I never wanted him to leave his wife. I never wanted her or their children to find out. What was really unfair to the wife is that I was getting the best of him. I didn't have to deal with parenting with him, or running a household. It was a purely fun relationship. So far, it offered me a lot of benefits with no catastrophic consequences. I'm sure that it would be someone else if it wasn't me. He needs that thrill of chasing a woman. I wanted the thrill of being the recipient of that attention.

We could make up story lines all day about how it's hell for the OW and ruins her life. Maybe that helps some of you sleep better at night. Sometimes, people have a need and get that need met, and the world doesn't come crashing down. [/quote]

I think everyones experiences in affairs are different. I've been a happy OW and an unhappy one. I've felt guilt for the wife and I've thought he married the wrong person. I am horrified at the thought of her finding out because I think she'd have the knee jerk reaction most spouses do and leave him. I don't feel I get the best of him though. I get what I need and so does he, which is really just sex. [/quote]

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