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So, you don't marry, because you assume the relationship will end, and it's easier to end a cohabiting situation?[/quote]

Personally I don't marry because I don't see the benefits of it.  I am with a person because I want to be with them.  I commit to them because I love them, not because I'm legally tied to them.  The easy split is just a possible benefit if it comes to that.

Others want to marry and gain the benefits from that.  That is their choice.

My opinion comes from they way I look at things.  And in this situation I step back and say WHY do I need to get married?  And there really aren't any reasons that make sense to me because marriage doesn't strengthen a commitment IMO.[/quote]

Marriage absolutely strengthens a commitment if done right. Premarital counseling. Standing up before God, family and friends and promising to love, honor and cherish the other person. That's why marriages are done formally - to strengthen and acknowledge an increased commitment level.[/quote]

For you marriage does that.  My relationship is as strong, as official and as important as your marriage.
We don't need marriage to attain an increased commitment level.[/quote]

But I don't recognize your non marriage as official, or as important as mine. Sorry. That's reserved for married people.[/quote]

I really don't care if you do!  I view your marriage as sad and unnecessary.  [/quote]

Why is marriage "sad"?[/quote]

I don't view all marriage as sad.  I view marriage to her as sad.
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