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Reply to "WWYD? We hate the name of our foster-to-adopt child"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think this child deserves to have a name that will be socially acceptable in the circles in which she will be raised. However, OP, if you change it, you must do so in a way that shows respect for her budding sense of self and celebrates the new name as a symbol of her entry into a new family, not an indication that she is unacceptable as is. If you changed your maiden name at the time of marriage, maybe tell her that and explain to her that taking a new name is one way for her to celebrate becoming part of a new family. Let her work with you to choose the name. Ask her what names she likes, and suggest some that you like, and see if you can find something that works for both of you. Take her to a book store and make a big deal about buying a name book. Treat the name selection as a project you do together. And keep the current name as a middle name.[/quote]
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