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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's new OP?[/quote]
OP here.  I decided to try to be as open-minded as possible and at least look at how our life would be out there.  Ive agreed to Go out there and look at neighborhoods and see if I could see us there.  I've since gotten more information about where the job will really be and where we would really need to live.  The job is not San Diego - it's in West LA (specifically Westwood).  This is about 2.5 hours from his parents.  I've been looking at where we could live and it looks like we could not afford to live anywhere close to his work.  He would have an hour plus commute to and from anywhere we could afford.  LA is expensive!  I suggested we talk to a realtor out there to see what realistically our money could buy and what kind of commute we are talking about for my husband.  This is where we are for those wondering.  I still do not like the idea of leaving the rest of my family but I realize I have to keep an open mind for my husband and our marriage.[/quote]

Everyone's focused on the family issues in this thread, but starting over in a new city with the working spouse having a three hour round trip commute sounds completely unappealing to me.[/quote]

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