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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Since he would be covering the entire west coast with this position, his company originally told him he could be based in San Diego.  He then was told since there is so much more need in the LA office, he would need to really be there.  They said he could also work out of the Long Beach office (although they prefer he be in LA), which is where the OC came from but after some research it seems OC is too far from Long Beach for a commute.[/quote]

I can't imagine a reasonable employer would hold it against your husband for not wanting to move his family to the most expensive part of LA. My husband's employer has offices in the UCLA area, and they offer a $25k bonus in addition to moving expenses and a cost of living adjustment as incentives. And still, they have a hard time staffing that office. Everyone is on you for not putting your family first by moving, but your husband wouldn't be putting his family first by moving either. San Diego might have been a draw, but I think LA has a lot more cons than San Diego. [/quote]

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