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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So much misandry on this thread.[/quote]

Yeah right, and I am someone that can't stand when other women - and some men - put men down. Posters are easily telling OP how much of a horrible whore she is and never deserves to see her kids.....how many times in threads where OP is a woman talking about her cheating husband do posters say he should never see the kids? Not as much as in this thread.[/quote]

Above poster is correct. What stands out about this thread was the malicious, targeted way posters are addressing OP, specifically around her gender and sexuality. Her behavior makes her a cheater. A bad spouse and possibly a bad parent. Same nouns one can use for a cheating DH. Posters repeatedly referring to OP as a "whore" and suggesting she lose custody of her kids are coming from an entirely different place. And it's not a good one.[/quote]

She lost custody because she can't afford to support her kids not because she is a whore. It's because she expects her ex-h to support her even though she has an Ivy League education. She makes $20k a year and refuses to get a real job.[/quote]

+1. Folks need to read carefully because the unbelievable lack of judgement by OP (not the covert affair part but running to move in with the OM) is what could be the nail in the coffin.  That her H is asking for details - that's understandable as some PPs noted due to the fact that he's destroyed by this revelation.  That he wants an 'open marriage' or for OP to perform on him as she did with then ON, well that's what OP says and it's coming from someone with with little credibility.

Do you think she deserves, based on behavior, to have her girls?  She can't support herself, the girls apparently hate her and at the first sign of trouble (i.e., being caught and kicked out the of the house) what did she do?  Does that sound like someone with her shit together?  And she think her H is being too mean.  wow.

As one PP mentioned, if OP was a man, what you'll be your reaction?[/quote]

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