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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As many or as few as my daughter (or my son, for that matter) wanted to have while staying safe and healthy, physically, mentally and emotionally. In our family, we don't slut-shame. [/quote]

so 100 would be ok if she felt safe and healthy?[/quote]

Sure. Honestly, I think 100 wouldn't even be that high if you end up marrying late like late thirties, early forties. Some people have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding the one.[/quote]

At those ridiculously highly fictional numbers, it's obviously a person who needs Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous:  http://www.slaafws.org/

Growing up in DC in the 1980s, I've known an handful of men and women like this. They're always tortured. They're either driven by repetition compulsion or some other affliction. Almost all want a solid, loving relationship with someone who really cares about them. Nobody wants to be used, certainly not seriously.

However, I honestly think you're being disingenuous in your post and that you'd never consider LTRs with anyone of that description.[/quote]

Some people see sex as an enjoyable way to get some necessary physical release and don't view every partner as a potential ltr. Just a little FYI.[/quote]

Another flip response by a non-parent who doesn't take the call of the question seriously.  I bet you haven't had sex in months yourself.

Grow up.[/quote]

Parent of a daughter here, and I completely agree that sex can absolutely be only about physical release. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you're safe. What's wrong with that?[/quote]

As long as you tell your partner at the outset, get tested, and use condoms, absolutely nothing. However, if you cheat on another monogamous partner without telling that person in advance so that s/he can opt out, then in Dan Savage's words, you're a CPOS, as opposed to a monogamish partner who gave the other partner prior notice.[/quote]

Huh?  Who's talking about cheating? Of course cheating is wrong.[/quote]

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