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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the specific condition?[/quote]
I’ve had a long-standing personal/health/wellbeing routine at home that keeps me grounded and brings me joy, but his new role comes with requirements that conflict with it. When I agreed to the life changes that came with his role, my one condition was that it not interfere with this, and now it has. He’s suggested a workaround, but it’s not ideal for me and isn’t what we originally agreed to. I’m trying to figure out where the line is between being supportive and giving up too much of myself. I don’t want to get too specific because it is very unique. [/quote]

In other words, he told you that your workout routine could continue on the same schedule as before, but his schedule now makes that impossible.  And you're angry that the accommodation he suggested "isn't ideal for you."

In the post right after this, you wondered if you were being petulant.  The answer is yes, and that's about the kindest way to describe it.  [/quote]

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