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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually think the key is to find ways to stop relying on "convenience" as the key. I think the whole system is built around this idea that we, as Americans, have that we need to maximize our time, that we must be "productive" at all times and minimize the time we spend on things like caring for our homes, making meals, shopping for basic items, etc. In theory we do this so we can spend more time with our family or relaxing, but how do we actually spend that time? Working, scrolling our phones, engaging in social media (like DCUM), etc.

I quit Prime and the first step for me has been slowing the eff down. My DC needed a special item of clothing for a performance this week. Previously, I would have ordered it on Amazon or elsewhere and had it in hand in a couple days. Instead I called a store to see if they had what we needed in stock, asked them to hold it for us, and drove to the store after picking my DC up on Tuesday to pick it up. It took longer but it was better. We interacted with multiple people and those interactions were positive. The item fit DC correctly because we were able to look at it/try it on before buying. The activity made DC more enthusiastic about their performance, and I think it was mentally useful to slow down and undertake that task in person in preparation. I also spent close to an hour 1:1 with DC while DH had 1:1 time with our other child at home and made dinner.

I know this sounds dumb to people but the truth is that I think we need to change our culture. I think we prioritize the wrong things. Efficiency and minimizing human interaction and maximizing technology reliance are not good for us. We need to slow down.

Also the longer it takes you to buy things, the less you buy. Which is bad for the people who hold onto all the profits from what you buy but better for your bank balance and the environment.[/quote]

I agree with you, but don't think this model works with two full time WOH parents. Amazon ordering is a response to the problem of not having time to go anywhere, and especially not having time to go to stores where the selection sucks because of Amazon competition and so you find nothing even after spending that time.

I'm actively trying to reduce my use of Amazon. DD needs a white dress for an event. I checked 5 different store websites, found nothing, and eventually had to order from Amazon. It's almost Easter, so white dresses should be everywhere, but no.[/quote]

Go to Altar'd State - I've never seen such a large collection of cute white dresses before. [/quote]

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