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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs are exciting.  Lets be honest.   Anytime married people of the opposite sex have an attraction that must be kept inside it creates sexual tension.  That is your mind and body want it.   Best to avoid temptation if you can[/quote]

I would not claim to know the excitement of an affair because I avoid the temptation with personal boundaries and a functioning moral compass.   Unfortunately, my STBX WW was not strong in either department.  She destroyed many relationships for the “high”.  The relationships that she still has knew about the affair and helped her get away with it because they were having affairs of their own.  Birds of a feather flock together, I would rather have people in my life that understand the difference between right and wrong.[/quote]

+100 cheaters hang with other cheaters or those w/out morals/empathy.  Poor character traits. [/quote]
My dude, the vast majority of people never ever tell their friends. You seem naive. [/quote]
Not the PP that you are responding to, but naive would be believing a person who cheats on their spouse and lies to everyone in their life would not betray you as your “friend”.   The situation was complex and difficult prior to cheating, after cheating they now have multiple complex and difficult situations.  If you don’t know who they are it does not make you naive, it means you are deceived and manipulated.[/quote]

What are these friendship betrayals you keep talking about? What are they going to do, cheat on your friendship?[/quote]

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