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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not prevalent in any of our friend circles and cultural groups.

I would probably drop the friend who cheats?

Wouldn't want to associate with such a person because in our groups, I would be judged for having such a friend. [/quote]

You're kidding, right? It is precisely these particular cultural groups that probably have the highest percentage of quiet cheaters. [/quote]

I disagree. Mainly because there is a lot of exposure and lots of eyeballs on you. You cannot be a recluse in my cultural group. You have to show up for all kinds of events as a family, you have to reciprocate and entertain a lot, people are in your business, you have to be high achieving, both parents have to be present for children EC because that is how you are socializing, men and women don’t hang out without their spouses. The opportunity to cheat within the group is hard.

And people snitch and inform big time - they will tell you if they saw your spouse and your kids somewhere and how they were behaving. People don’t take offense to it. Just the other day, I saw my neighbor’s son drive rashly. I immediately called his parents and told them. It is not seen as snitching but as looking out for their children. But then this is my cultural group. Can you imagine doing this with majority culture?

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I assume the cultural group is southeast asian? Lots of things going right in that community. [/quote]

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