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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP sounds like a selfish brat.

Many couples exclude children from weddings, it is extremely common.

Furthermore i wouldn’t want a baby and toddler at ANY intimate dinner at a nice elegant restaurant especially if it were my wedding dinner.

BTW iI am a parent of two young children and invited kids to my wedding. Everyone has different preferences and the wedding couple get to decide.

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That's really rude. Op is not being a selfish brat. She's trying to figure out how to make sure her family including a nursing baby of a few months is cared for. She's thinking of them and that doesn't make her a brat.

Op also never said it was a nice elegant restaurant. It could be a very family friendly place for all we know. [/quote]

Whatever it is, her kids aren’t included. So stay home and care for them since apparently the husband is incapable. [/quote]

I've never met a husband who could nurse.

I agree she should stay home and skip the events. [/quote]

lol so you don’t have experience with freezer supplies and putting BM in a bottle.
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My kid had bottle refusal around 3 months which was unfun.  We got him off it but it took quite a bit of work.

Breastfeeding in the nurse heavy days does also mean you get uncomfortable after a few hours of not pumping or nursing.[/quote]

A few hours? So OP can easily go to either the court house or the dinner, comfortably, for an hour or two. I still don’t get how this is a huge imposition. She just wants her kids included, just cuz. Not because this is logistically difficult. It’s not like she even RSVPd 2 for herself and the nursing baby. She went all in for the family of 4. Rude.[/quote]

Yes, even for a few hours.

Op was not rude. She rsvp-ed for 4 because no one at that point said no kids. [/quote]

Well, now she knows. I guess this family is a little different that this was all a verbal invitation to a wedding anyway issued by the parents of the groom.[/quote]

Exactly. This whole wedding invite thing is very unusual...all verbal, not done by the couple getting married.

Frankly op, I'd be thrilled to skip this mess. [/quote]

Plot twist. The parents of the groom are the ones who want it to be kid free not the couple getting married. 
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Because they know their daughter is the type to let the toddler run wild and let the baby scream without taking it out. [/quote]

And you the daughter is this kind of parent how?[/quote]

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