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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would say yes but request that they all shower in their hotel rooms before coming over. And then they can get dressed at your place using the guest room and guest bath. I would not want to have to accommodate 6 extra adults showering in my house in a non-emergency situation -- it's going to cause major issues for everyone (in my house after the fourth shower, there would be zero hot water left and it would take 45 minutes before it had recovered).

Having them put on their suits and pin flowers to their lapels or whatever actually sounds fun and festive, and the kids could help and take photos with them and make a memory. It's only the logistics of getting everyone showered that would stress me out in that situation, and it seems obvious that they should do that in their hotel rooms before coming over. Even when I have been a bridesmaid in weddings where we were getting ready in a suite beforehand, I have generally showered in my own room and shown up with damp or damp-dry hair. The expectation of showering in a space shared by a dozen people is silly.[/quote]

There is no way they all expect to shower there, but sure, just tell them to shower/shave in advance and then come on over.[/quote]

They could all expect to shower. Definitely tell them to come showered. [/quote]

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