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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: There seems to be confusion with the state we are in currently. So, before around late October my DD and the main friend used to be very very close. They hung out every week, and there was no issue. Suddenly, the main friend started slowly ignoring DD, and invited their whole friend group places without DD knowing. The part I find most toxic is when the main friend of the group started sending pictures to my DD (I am not sure if I have said that yet, but there it is) and started talking to my DD about how fun it was. She would only talk about the hangouts when my DD was there, and make it obvious that my DD was missing out. None of these were open invites either, because once when my DD did think it was, the main friend said "me and MY friends are hanging out this weeked, it's gonna be so fun, you should go do something with your friends" (And before anyone else starts saying "maybe your DD bothered them or were never friends to begin with" My DD was the one who brought this whole group together in Kindergarten.) DD asked if she did anything wrong, and all of them said no and that they would do better. Things kept getting worse, as they whispered and ran away from DD, planned friendsgiving, ect. When my DD started making new friends, her old ones looked at her, laughed at her, and called her "weird" or "friendless" This would not bother my DD if they were not her close friends for 9 years, but seeing everyone turn on her left her heartbroken. To clear up more confusion, I HAVE found my DD a therapist now, and DD clearly stated changing schools now would be useless, because there is less than a year left of MS. Hope this clears things up.[/quote]

This sounds like a classic apple not falling far from the tree.  If you could go back in time, you were kind in middle school and this girl’s mom was the mean girl and the mom encourages it now.  [/quote]

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