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[quote=Anonymous]To build on my point with an example, let’s say a husband might crave an erotic massage from another woman…not because he wants her, but because he misses feeling desired or just wants that physical experience. That might be a boundary his wife isn’t okay with, and that’s valid. But (assuming he’s doing it with a mutually consenting adult) it’s worth asking why it feels threatening if he has no intention of leaving or building intimacy elsewhere. The fear itself deserves a conversation. And if she still says no, then what? Ignoring the desire won’t make it disappear. That’s where couples have to face the truth: either find new ways to reconnect, accept the difference, or risk secrecy taking over. People can choose whatever they want, but not without consequences. The more honestly couples can talk about what’s real, the less likely those choices turn into betrayal.[/quote]
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