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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a divorce lawyer, and I hate to be the bearer of bad news…. but if you’re in a sex-starved marriage and not working on it, someone else is probably working on your partner. Especially if it’s a man. It’s not always about bad people doing bad things. It’s often about people who never learned how to talk about desire.

Humans need touch, connection, and sometimes variety. Those are hard conversations to have, but avoiding them doesn’t make the needs go away. Maybe what one partner wants isn’t okay for the other, and that’s fine. What’s not fine is pretending the issue doesn’t exist.

Most affairs don’t start with the intent to hurt. They start with silence. We’re not taught to talk about sex or unmet needs, so things fester until someone looks elsewhere for what’s missing. I see it across every walk of life, pastors, doctors, teachers, bankers.

The betrayal still hurts. But it’s usually born out of neglect, not malice. The fix isn’t judgment, it’s learning to have the uncomfortable conversations before someone else fills the void.[/quote]

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