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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a husband problem. 
Tell us how the marriage is outside of this ? [/quote]

It’s mostly good. When I get upset about a [b]mistake [/b]he made- throwing out something of mine, breaking something of mine, that’s when this behavior comes out, and it’s so distressing to me.[/quote]

How hard of a time are you giving him about a MISTAKE he made? Of course even if it was a mistake you should apologize to someone if you did something to them but I also wouldn't be too hard on someone who accidentally threw something out. Yes, it's careless, and I have a right to be upset about it, but they didn't do it on purpose...[/quote]

Great, if this was a one-time mistake, a grown man should have no problem apologizing and vowing to not do that again.

But that ain’t how he handled his mistake, is it?

Now if he has a pattern of repeat “mistakes” or similar behaviors, that’s a different issue.[/quote]

You're right, he should have no trouble apologizing for what he did. But when his wife came at him like he had done it on purpose, I can see how he was rocked back on his heels. Should he have had a better response? Absolutely. Should she have handled it better when she walked in the door? Absolutely. [/quote]

So convenient that she came at him.

So convenient that he was non responsive when OP originally asked what happened several times.

Being non responsive escalates things.

Apologizing and responding would have nipped this in the bud and no one would be talking about it right now.

See how that works? [/quote]

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