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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Asked out on dates"

Is she willing to do the asking? [/quote]

That's not going to go well[/quote]

Why not?[/quote]

I'm surprised you don't know this.  Men want to do the choosing.  If they want to date you they will ask.  If they don't ask they won't want you.  And I don't want to hear about the one man who was asked out because this true of the majority of men![/quote]

The 1950s have spoken.[/quote]

It’s different in 2025. Women need to ask. Men have been taught they will get charged with harassment and guilty first. [/quote]Have any of you ever asked a woman out in the past quarter-century? I've never had any problems with this.  [/quote]

That's because sexual harassment is a pattern. Ask once, accept a "no," move along? That's not harassment, and no serious person thinks it is[/quote]
Not everyone is "serious", and most girls confuse sexual attention with romantic interest and will thus reject a guy at their level because they have (or can easily get) a "date" (sex appointment) with a very attractive guy who has no long term interest in them.[/quote]

This rings true. My mother didn't really teach me this stuff. She met my dad at 21 and he fell madly in love. So I guess I assumed a guy would fall madly in love with me as well. I had no idea how dishonest they could be. I also didn't realize guys could feel sexual about women they cared nothing for, since for me that would be impossible.[/quote] Did your mother really never even tell you "men are dogs" or to "save it for marriage", or anything of the sort? I find that hard to believe.[/quote]

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