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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have had two kids go from k-8's on to "Big 3/5's"--being from a k-8 is a hook in itself, but otherwise we were not connected to any schools through legacy or board friends, non-athletic kids, non-board member, just normal parent job, etc.

While many kids seem the same on paper, the message communicated with school through the process can be the differentiating factor.  Admissions gets tons of applications--you need to get your child and your family on their radar in a clear positive way. Attend every admissions event your invited to--schools want to offer spots to families they "know". Help them get to "know" your child/family.

For HS especially, think about your child like a brand, figure out what makes their brand special/unique/interesting and be very consistent with that story in interviews and essays. Do not laundry list accomplishments, or extra curriculars. Dig deeper--especially for sporty kids--tons of kids play sports so unless your child is really a sports star, you need to articulate why this is meaningful or find something else unique about your kid. Communicate what your child is bringing to the party--not just why the school would be a good for your child.

For any grade, do not ever bad-mouth your current school. You can say your child is ready for something smaller, bigger, to be more independent, single sex, co-ed, broader curriculum, more challenging classes, etc.

Do not ask any questions that may make you seem high maintenance--wait until your child is admitted for those questions.  Do not ask about anything that would make school have to go over and above just for your child. The exception to this would be if your child has a learning difference, needs an accommodation, has sever allergies, medical condition, etc  which definitely do warrant questions and are within reasonable expectations for a school to address.

Do ask some questions beyond something you can get off the website. Do ask about how families can get involved in the school community--volunteering, events, etc. Ask about favorite school traditions. Ask about kids joining clubs, etc. Schools want students and  families who want to be involved in their community.

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This is sage advice. A lot of it is common sense but sadly many people don’t practice it. [/quote]

I agree with both PPs here. Great advice... and very true that many people don't follow it.
-a private school parent and former private school teacher[/quote]

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