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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]May 2023 from OP

I'm still not sure where I want to go from here. I go through hopeful phases and then have moments where I am just done. I'm sick of the emotional rollercoaster, sick of the pain, sick of the time and resource blackhole this has all been, sick of working on therapies and having big conversations. [b]If we can't, our kids have two great parents and I feel that I can look them in the eye someday and honestly tell them I gave it my all.[/b]

Do you still feel this way OP? It's been over two years since this post. What has changed?[/quote]
What do you mean what has changed? I have kicked him out, filed for divorce, got myself a really substantial promotion ($80k-130k), continued therapy, have the kids in therapy, took the kids on several camping trips this summer. I've been working really, really hard to provide stability across every plane for the kids- physcial, mental, emotional, financial. My entire life has changed.[/quote]

I think PP means that your tone toward your ex has softened quite a bit in this last post. I dont think she is disputing that you're working your ass off and doing all of the things. But the way wrote this OP was almost like you made him your problem again, which he is certainly not. Let him deal with the consequences of his actions and you keep doing what you've been doing. [/quote]

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