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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Relationships built on “usefulness” are not good relationships. Accusing your of using your kids for photographs and nothing more is more telling of your character than theirs. You sound spoiled and immature, unable to provide for your own kids.[/quote]

The grandparents are building their relationship based on usefulness. They only come to take photos to stay a couple of hours a year and pretend they have a good relationship. They weigh each hour they spend on how useful it is to their life. OP feels used which is probably why she's saying they are useless. They are both using each other I suppose because there is no love to take the place. When you love someone relationship aren't this transactional and no one feels used because each person respects the boundaries someone sets and in the space in between they are there to love, not solely to get something out of the interaction. [/quote]

So you guys are defending the terrible grandparents? They didn’t even care when my kids were born? They literally came for 2 hours to take photos then left? Something is seriously wrong with people today if they think this is an acceptable behavior. [/quote]

They’re your kids, weirdo. How kind did you want them to stay??? Two hours sounds like plenty. WTF, are you really this convinced you’re the center of the universe? [/quote]

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