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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to find a job immediately. Given his mental health issues and the upheaval and stress of a divorce, his job may be precarious.
What kind of work were you doing up until the move?[/quote]

Go back to former state w kids and get a job. He is unstable. Get a very good lawyer, versed in mental disorders, games, and trauma (yours). [/quote]

OP and as much as I like that fantasy I’m pretty sure that I cannot move during divorce proceedings and that an out of state move would be a major negotiation as part of a custody agreement.[/quote]

This is why you need a lawyer - the above makes sense and is probably correct, BUT if there's a basis to fight jurisdiction/residence or if it's easy to re-establish residence back in your home state, and that would be advantageous to you then you need to understand that and use it to your advantage.

Katie Holmes didn't establish NY residency prior to her divorce from Tom Cruise haphazardly - she did it to get the upper hand - and she used it.

If you are able to do mediation after all, that's great, but I certainly would approach this situation with a hope for the best and plan for the worst mindset.[/quote]

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