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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see it too and I don’t get it. I am raising my boy to be kind and empathetic but I feel like many other parents are teaching their kids to be jerks. Even among so called “progressive” families we are witnessing the creation of bullies and aggressive/selfish behavior that is shocking but not corrected.[/quote]

How old is your boy? I’m doing the same and he was bored for his kindness by several teachers. The school environment matters too. We switched from an inclusive small school to a top public and DS has brought home so much slang and jerky one upping behavior. We model and talk about kindness at home, but he is at school for 7 hours a day around this stuff. Also shocked at language and attitudes on kids TV shows. We no longer watch tv. [/quote]

Do you really want to get it or do you want to not get it?

If you don’t want to get, it no amount of explanation will help you. Also not wanting to get it will drive a wedge between you and the others in your community.

If you want to get it, ask the other parents in an open non-judgmental way. You will be able to have better conversations than here.

For example, if you were to ask me, I would tell you that I have no problem with slang. Kids saying I’m cooked to their friends or in their family is not mean or rude to me. I would tell them not to talk to their pastor that way.[/quote]

That’s not bad at all.   It’s the mean spirited insults that are masked as “roasting” that are the problem.  It normalizes trading insults if done at a young age.   I don’t want those type of kids.   [/quote]

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