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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women can be extremely unforgiving when they perceive that their husbands ruined whatever perfect life they had. I have seen many men loose their wives, end up depressed and just miserable from the enormous pressure that their wives put on them when they loose their jobs. [/quote]

Well, if the division of labor in their family has been:
Woman - cook, clean, childcare, social life, family connections, holiday planner, vacation planner
Man , earn money to fund life, enjoy life woman provides and take credit for kids" success

Then he doesn't hold jo his end of the bargain and you want to blame the woman? Crazy!  When the house if dirty and the kids go off the rails, does he take the blame? No it's the mom's fault.

A better split is the both work and split everything else.  Then when one loses a job not everything goes pear shaped and he can lean into more of the household duties as he looks for a job and she can lean more into work for a promotion.[/quote]

With the amount of projecting in this comment, you should consider being a fiction writer.[/quote]

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