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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's easy to figure out why so many people on this thread have horrible marriages when you read these responses.

If you think that the root of infidelity is being frumpy, I don't think you understand what a healthy marriage is.

Marriage isn't a transaction relationship, it isn't "you stay sexy, so I'll stay faithful."  Marriage is for better or for worse, in sickness and in health.  If you choose to break that vow, it's not because your spouse is frumpy.  It's because you didn't take that vow seriously to begin with, or because your marriage has deteriorated to the point where you don't care about the other person.[/quote]

Sorry, BS, people are not infallible.  Deal with reality.[/quote]

No, NOT BS.  I know quite a few frumpy and/or batshit crazy women whose husbands have NOT strayed, because they take their marriage seriously.  The people I know whose husbands cheated didn't cheat because their wives were frumpy (they weren't), they cheated because the marriage had problems or they themselves had problems.  I know one guy whose wife cheated with a woman who almost looked the same (thin, blond, mid-thirties).[/quote]

LOL sorry he cheated on his wife with someone who looked very similar to her LOL![/quote]

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