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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's not going to start the divorce process because he has no reason to.   If he's having an affair, he's probably not at a point where he's thinking about being in a serious relationship with her.  Divorce is expensive.  He'd have to find a new place to live.   He'd have to pay child support for 3 kids.  He'd have to have some form of custody for 3 kids that he doesn't want to be involved with right now (likely because they make him feel guilty for the affair as they are a reminder of your marriage and what he's doing to his family).  Right now, he has the best of both worlds. He can keep doing whatever he wants with no consequences.   [/quote]

I feel like this is it.

And he knows I’m desperate to keep things normal for the kids so continues to do whatever he wants.

If I push for divorce I’m the bad guy. [/quote]

This is what they WANT. The get out of jail card where you’re the bad guy and all the blame goes on you, not just to him but to everyone. It’s all part of the game. [/quote]

Exactly. And if I had a thousand dollars for every person who thought my previously devoted, now ex-DH, had a brain tumor during his affair, I’d be wealthy.[/quote]

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