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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is my best friend. I have a very successful career that I find fulfilling - he gave up his job to focus on our family and is an awesome dad and husband. Like many SAHM's he is not super organized or focused on cleaning but he is focused on the kids, what they need done. I've never had to do carpool or dr checkups unless i want to can travel or work w/out having conflicts w/ his work schedule etc.. Don't really get all the people claiming this is impossible or SAHD's have to be a male martha stewart when all SAHM's don't meet those standards[/quote] I know a woman like you (you might be her) and what I know about this person's DH is that he is really a man among men. He is kind and considerate and has stepped up to the plate to be a great dad and great family man. [b]He could have had a career, but it wasn't going to be as good as the wife's could be. [/b] This doesn't sound anything like OP's boyfriend.[/quote] This is an excellent point. I think the best SAHMs are those who could have an awesome career if they wanted to but decided that staying home with their children was the better decision. I'm a working mom because I didn't want to stay at home, but being lazy, etc. doesn't generally translate into being good at anything, taking care of children included. [/quote]
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