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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of the people posting in this thread shouldn’t be in any type of relationship, and certainly shouldn’t be married.

What a bunch of lazy, entitled, selfish asshats.[/quote]

If you’re talking about some of us saying that op is not doing anything wrong, then you should examine your own values. Why do you feel that a partner who earns more, contributes, 50 in Household chores and more than that with kids is lazy or entitled. Because she is a woman? Gross.[/quote]

No, you freaking weirdo.  Because she is LYING to her husband about how much she “works” so that she can laze around the house like a sloth binge watching crap on Netflix rather than getting off her lazy a$$ and doing the grocery shopping or the laundry every once in awhile, so he can have a bit of free time as well.  I also guarantee that she doesn’t actually do jacksh!t with the kids, she’s too lazy and self-centered.

OP is an a$$hole, and I hope her husband decides to hit her up style when the eventually divorce.[/quote]

Well, good luck to the person married to you. You seem like a [b]thoughtful, considerate, well-adjusted [/b]person.[/quote]

I don’t think you know what any of these words mean if you’re defending OP’s behavior…[/quote]

Never did I say anything about OP. Just about that comment. Name-calling, ranting, cursing… nice.[/quote]

LOL.  Yeah, those are the things that *really* matter… (idiot)[/quote]

One of the key predictors of divorce is contempt. (The most accurate predictor is stonewalling). Divorce due to contempt can be a sign of lesser relationship problems as well, such as with close friends and family. Relationship problems can prevent promotions at work as well as moving into the more flexible roles it seems like you’d like.

If you want to make changes in your life, I would start with the Gottman Institute.

Or you can also spew hate on happy, successful people on the internet.[/quote]

I think you are extremely confused.  Maybe stop spending your days watching self help videos on tik tok and pick up a dictionary.  Or, you know, talk to your own spouse about the contempt you clearly have for him, which is why you’re okay letting him work like a dog while you sit on your fat @$$ all day.  [/quote]

As my youngest would say, 😶🤷

But that’s why he has friends.[/quote]

Your responses make more sense now.  You’re obviously a lonely empty nester who no longer has a relationship with her husband (and never had friends - no one wants some uptight Karen trying to control what words they’re allowed to use at brunch, after all).

Don’t worry, maybe one of your kids will call you soon if they can find the time between hanging out with their friends (who presumably aren’t insane *gasp* a s s h o l e s like their mommy) and working or studying.[/quote]

He’s 4.[/quote]

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