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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][twitter][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP above and I forgot to add that I was sexually assaulted multiple times in my late teens and 20s and didn’t even fully understand it was sexual assault until the last time (when I pressed charges and was ready to testify until last-minute plea deal). That’s why I have started so early with DD. [/quote]

I’m sorry this happened to you.
I’m not really understanding a sexual assault that you “didn’t really understand was sexual assault” until it happened to you several times.
Obviously that sounds horrific. Very confusing though for the guy as well if he also didn’t realize that it was against your will? Just trying to figure out how that is communicated after the fact so that he is also aware that you now realize it was sexual assault.[/quote]

I am not PP but a lot of people think it isn't assault if it isn't violent rape. Too drunk to consent, froze up, groped but no penetration - lots of people wrongly think these are not assault. [/quote]

How is the guy going to know that you don’t want it if you don’t say no. [/quote]
Let me get this straight, the mere label of "girlfriend" entitles a male to grope a boob?

Unless she clearly says yes, it should not proceed. PERIOD. My friends with boys are teaching their boys this.

If they are drinking to the point of drunk and unable to consent it shoudl not go forward.

Boys aren't animals. It's time we stop treating them like they are not capable of knowing when there is consent.[/quote]

It’s well past time to stop teaching girls that they can’t use their words.  Stop infantilizing women and girls.  Don’t teach your daughters that her safety is anyone’s responsibility but her own, for starters.[/quote]
Gross!!! No I'm sorry, I'm just not going to accept the concept that women have to constantly shoot down advances and if they don't do so aggressively enough for the dumb h*rny male to understand she's giving him a blank check to rape her. Proposition declined. Thank you for illustrating the predatory male entitlement to sex though. [/quote]

WTF are you on about?  Your response is so disconnected from the post you replied to (and reality) that I suggest you might need to call a hotline of some variety.[/quote]
You are saying men get to badger women for sex constantly and it is the woman's responsibility to say no. It is disgusting. You might be on a list of some kind. [/quote]

That is not at all what was said.  You are completely unhinged.[/quote]
"It’s well past time to stop teaching girls that they can’t use their words.  Stop infantilizing women and girls.  Don’t teach your daughters that her safety is anyone’s responsibility but her own, for starters."
You are explicitly saying men are entitled to peddle their d--- and its on the woman to say no. Stop gaslighting. [/quote]

I don’t even know what “peddle their d—-“ is supposed to mean.  Use your big girl words.[/quote]
"Hey baby how you doin?"
"I've never seen a girl as beautiful as you, can I have your number?"
"Do you have a boyfriend"

This is all d--- peddling. An invitation to sex. Women should not have to constantly push away advances for sex for the sin of being a reproductive aged woman in a public space [/quote]

I see.  Yes, all of those statements are allowed.  They might be annoying and unwelcome, but there is nothing remotely harmful to the person on the receiving end.

I mean, think of the many people who are forced to interact with *you* every day.  I can’t imagine many people don’t find your unhinged pseudo-feminist ranting annoying and unwelcome, but you’re not actually harming anyone and you certainly aren’t assaulting them![/quote]

There's a lot of confusion through this whole thread about what harassment is. Unwelcome advances are harassment, regardless of whether anyone was harmed or traumatized or sad. It doesn't have to ruin your week in order to be harassment.

And no, calling out to someone on the street to ask if she has a boyfriend is not "starting a conversation." It's harassment. If you actually wanted to have a conversation, that's not how you'd do it and everyone knows that. [/quote]
Somebody actually said you can grope a boob and if a woman says no and pulls away the boob grope wasn't assault. OP should have her DD read this thread! [/quote]

Well, context matters.  If some random guy walks by and grabs your boob, sure that’s assault.  If you’re making out with your boyfriend and he moves his hand to your boob, and doesn’t try it again after you push it away, that’s not assault.  That’s just normal escalation of sexual behavior between partners.

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