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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Serious question…other than just outright asking someone you are dating to tell you if they have ADHD or whatever…is there some other less rude way to figure this out?  Will people lie to you about it, even if you ask?

Seems like 90% of the relationship threads have someone (usually the man) with some ADHD or ASG or whatever diagnosis.

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Yes they will lie
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So will their mother.
My MIL said some things like he’s stubborn or “what kind of smart” or “I didn’t know he had it in him.”

FIL was the absent minded professor type who can’t follow a conversation on anything, and “took a package” at age 50 never worked again. Just sat around the house reading the news in a computer. Once told my then 4 yo to out a raw steak in the grill for him and I had to put the keibash down.

My spouse told my my BIL (when we had to go over family history for our oldest), had tutoring and dyslexia throaty three times a week when a child. And still records any lectures. I asked what the dyslexia consisted of and he said BiL “was hyper and always bouncing off the walls, he would only focus on stuff he wanted to and nothing else.”  I said this was called dyslexia? And my spouse said Yeah, that’s what his Mom called it.

Ugh.
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