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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was relentlessly pursue by a married.woman at work I mean it was insane. Men are capable of resisting advances it is not that hard. But having been on this forum for awhile I am sure some women will show up soon and blame OP as opposed to her husband. Some of these women will start fishing for OP's shortcomings maybe she got fat, maybe she is not giving him enough sex, maybe this maybe that. Women are cruel toward other women it's very bizarre.[/quote]

No one has done that in 12 pages.[/quote]

The women who are shaming OP for wanting to tell the Aps partner and that she should just be silent are doing exactly this. [/quote]

I am one of the posters "shaming OP" and have never told her to be silent. I think she should figure out a kind way to notify the other betrayed spouse and provide whatever factual information she has been gleefully compiling. It is absolutely possible to do that without being smug, posting excitedly about how "it's on", and then accusing everyone who disagrees with her of being a cheater or "shaming women." I never commented on her appearance or her marriage - just the poor character that a person demonstrates when they are happy about causing pain.

You can disagree with me on that front all you want. We can agree to disagree. What I have observed in other situations like this is that finding out about a spouse's longterm affair can cause a person to behave really out of character. If OP is normally a non-spiteful person who doesn't enjoy causing pain, then clearly this has affected her. If she has always been vindictive and spiteful, then it's definitely a character thing, which has nothing to do with either of us being a woman.[/quote]

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