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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think young kids should be in a locker room alone.

Just google locker room assaults.

https://wjla.com/news/local/woman-alleges-rape-assault-inside-wilson-aquatic-center-locker-room-97400

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These are not young kids. [/quote]

When your 11 yr old is raped in a locker room, lets so how old you think they are.[/quote]
For moms who think it’s too dangerous for an 11 year old boy to use the men’s locker room at the pool…

1) How do you determine when they can start using men’s locker rooms? What age/size/milestone will make the risk acceptable to you?

2) What do you say to your sons about why they can’t use the men’s locker room? Do you tell them that men’s locker rooms are high risk places for sexual assaults?

3) Do you worry at all about teaching your sons, who will grow up to be men, that men are dangerous and be regarded with suspicion?

4) If you regard adult males as unacceptably risky for your 11 son to change with, can you understand that young girls view your son as just a few years shy of being one of those dangerous men, and therefore do not feel comfortable changing around him?[/quote]
Wow you have some anxiety going on here. Do you see your DH as a potential rapist or is it just everyone one else including children who are upcoming rapists? Have you considered keeping your DH away from your DD and her friends? Or maybe you conceived thru immaculate conception and no man needed!  :lol:  :lol: [/quote]

ok then … there’s no reason for your 11 year old son not to use the men’s locker. [/quote]

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