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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honest question. Is it fair to say that older women in particular have issues with men who choose to remarry with a younger woman?I don't think OP because marriage sucks anyways. But I went through all the responses and there is clearly an undertone that somehow older men such as OP should not be going younger. I get in that women past a certain age are not as desirable as they once were. Men no longer turn their heads when they pass guy. Sometimes they are invisible in public spaces where they once you used to grab so much wanted and unwanted attention. [/quote]

My dad divorced my mom after 30 years and married a much younger woman. Of course she is attractive but that's just youth. To this date my mom is hurt about it. She is not bitter she is hurt..Sometimes she makes comments that clearly show her insecurity about being "dumped" as she described it for a younger woman. I love my mother and I understand. I love my dad as well despite the fact that he is a narcissist and a cheater. As a man I wonder if we sometimes realize how much our attraction to younger women can be destructive. I have been married for 10 years and I hope not to leave my wife for a younger woman. I don't think I will, but I wonder about stupid impulses that we men have sometimes. But being aware and hurt by what my dad did to my mom, I don't think I will do what he did.

So OP don't do it. If you ask my opinion I'll strongly recommend you date a woman in her 40s. My wife is 43 and she into fitness. She is very very very very hot. So resist your impulse to go younger because that's how trouble starts. Men are attracted to fertility that's just human nature..and the younger the woman is the more our eyes are glazed toward her hips. You need to fight this natural impulse and think with your brain instead.

Women your age go do not make this mistake. I think some people confuse the fact that older women go younger to draw conclusions. But that's purely for sex. Men peak very early sexually. If single women in their 40s have to rely on men in their age group to satisfy them sexually they will have to wait a long time. I am in my 40s while I still think I am a stallion lol I am.well.aware of my limitations.  [/quote]

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