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[quote=Anonymous]I don't get you, OP. You say you are ready in terms of finances, and you think she's the one, but then why do you hesitate? Fear of divorce? Anything can happen. But, if you fear divorce so much that it is paralyzing you, I don't think you should get married. You need to work on your fear first. There's no timeline. You said she has no timeline, then what's the issue? IMO, you have deep seated fears about your marriage not being perfect because you seem to think all the marriages around you were perfect and did not end up in divorce. Marriages take work and compromise; kids make a marriage worse, and you might even have a SN kid, and that will make the marriage even harder. If you want to marry her, then get engaged. You don't have to get married right away. But, your hesitancy tells us that there's something else there. That is what you need to work on.[/quote]
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