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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friend B always seems to get what she wants, doesn't she? [/quote]

She kind of does.  And maybe that's why she is now on a reduced budget, if that's true.  When they bought the ponies a few months ago, they had their saddles and other gear shipped from the US; her daughter told me that her saddle cost $5000, and they have a few of these.  I know my friend's husband told her they were NOT paying to ship the equestrian gear in, but she went ahead and did it anyway, so maybe he reduced her summer spending limit or something.

For me, the $1000 I had originally wanted for the treadmill would go to groceries or bills.  I'm really disappointed in myself for feeling so angry about this because I think it is going to ruin our friendship.  She just texted me a string of hearts and "I am so happy to be getting a treadmill at home, I really appreciate this."  I don't know if I can get over this.  I don't think her concept of "can't afford this" is the same as mine.[/quote]

I would NEVER do that to a friend particularly a friend who has much less than me. It would be an opportunity for me to help my friend even more so knowing you probably have expenses related to your move. She's a taker and I would be po'd at her. You don't do that to people you love. What an opportunist. [/quote]

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