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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone is so focused on validating OP and vilifying the friend. A totally reasonable alternative narrative here is that OP is a resentful, jealous mess of a person.

Who knows what the truth is.  Friend A/OP: ultimately no one cares.  Maintain the friendship or don’t.  You’re moving so just figure it out.  This isn’t hard.  Presumably you’re an adult and can function in the adult world.  If you want the friendship let bygones by bygones and if you don’t, perfect time to sever ties.  [/quote]

On DCUM, you have to take stories like this at face value unless the OP changes the story or there are giant holes in it. I don't know OP or her friend and will never know "the truth" here -- maybe OP is writing a short story and made the whole thing up. I can only respond to the truth as presented by the OP. And in her OP, I think the friend has behaved in a rude and thoughtless manner. I'm not even interested in validating OP, who I think needs to learn to stand up to people like this in the future. But that doesn't change the fact that as described, the friend's behavior sucks. You don't view you friend's loss as your own personal gain. That's tacky and obnoxious.[/quote]

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