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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there. [/quote]

Same. So trashy. [/quote]

Quick, everyone stop living your lives because two losers on DCUM think it's "tacky and trashy."

BTW tacky and trashy are words you use when you're uneducated and haven't read enough to learn other, more descriptive words. [/quote]

That’s not it. I have many other words. But, that is not how words work. Tacky and trashy are absolutely perfect here so one need not expand. The most educated people know that words should be precise.

One could say selfish, unfair, shortsighted, small, limited, stifling, sad. All would work. [/quote]

And don’t forget “stupid”[/quote]

I think it's stupid and limited and small to stay in a situation that is horrible for your mental and physical health under the guise that you're some kind of a martyr for your kids. If you want to stay married, by all means, have at it. To call the choices of other people all the names you listed when you have absolutely no idea what they are going through is the epitome of trashy and tacky. [/quote]

Live your life. It’s all about you and your happiness. Kids be damned. You’re #1.[/quote]

Like I said, fakey fake martyrdom is so much more noble. You do you. [/quote]

NP
wtf is fakey fake martyrdom?  [/quote]

Staying married to a cereal cheater "for kid's sake" for example. Staying married to an alcoholic or a gambler, because you don't want kids to be from "a broken home." Your home is already broken, dear. You just don't have the guts to leave. That's the only difference. [/quote]

Maybe your home but not mine. And it doesn't take guts to leave it takes guts to stay, ride the roller coaster, and work on issues. Leaving is the easy gutless thing to do.[/quote]

Staying is easy. Leaving is hard. Cowards stay. And women who can’t support themselves. Many times, issues can’t be “worked out.”[/quote]

You're so brave. Putting your needs first. Quitting is easy.[/quote]

Don’t assume marriages are like yours. Some are horrific. That is your problem. Divorce is also logistically and financially difficult. People don’t divorce lightly. Staying married is much easier than coparenting. But it is worth it if the marriage is really bad. It is putting kids needs first as well. Abusive toxic marriages are far worse than ok divorces. I know—I grew up in one. It took me far too long to leave. 10 years. That is not “quitting”; I waited too long as it was.

Stop with your BS judgement. You have no clue what people endure. [/quote]

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