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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.[/quote]

No one is feeling threatened by anything. We’re just confused by why the unattractive women of color think the unattractive white men they are dating are so hot. They aren’t. [/quote]

What is it to you?

Don't be confused. Find your own hot/ not so hot man/ woman and be happy.[/quote]

I think what bothers me is the internalized racism. How the ugly Asian chick thinks the ugly white guy is hot just because he isn’t an ugly Asian guy and vice versa. (For instance when the ugly Jewish guy thinks the ugly Asian chick is hot because she isn’t an ugly Jewish girl.)

That sort of self hate bothers me. [/quote]

I’m from NY and I have seen many of these ugly Asian Jewish couples. Both probably don’t think they are ugly and that is fine.

I have an Asian friend who is larger than most other Asian women. She and her sister are not the types most Asian men like as they have bigger bones and larger than a lot of Asian men, meaning fatter, not taller. One sister only dates white guys and the other one only dates black men. They often say how unattractive Asian men are. It is unfortunate because it is almost like insulting yourself since you are badmouthing your own race.[/quote]

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