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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He needs to do more. Even if he is gone when dinner has to be cooked, he can cook chili or a meal like that on Sunday to be eaten Monday, etc. It is ridiculous that you do all pickup drop off cooking dinner. It is not fair He needs to do more or hire someone [/quote] +1 he doesn't earn enough to foist all this on you. Is he required to be in the office 5 days a week? That's too much for that salary level. He should look for a new job with more flexibility. WFH makes all the difference in making working and parenting possible.[/quote] I find that men who are used to not doing the home kid stuff don’t automatically do more. I have a friend who was a SAHM and did everything. She went back to work so her husband would help more. Guess what? He told her to hire as much help as she wants but he doesn’t ever want to be asked to do any housework. He does help drive kids around. I often see him around at games and school dropping kids off. They have 3 kids, just like us so we are always juggling.[/quote]
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