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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Where did she say she was neglecting her child?  She said she was occupied with the SN older sibling and needed to give more attention to the 13YO - that is very different than “neglect.”  The mom is not out at the bars.  The mom is not so enmeshed in dating or work or yoga classes that she can’t pay attention to the 13YO.  She has a SN kid.  No, a 13YO should not be drinking and hooking up, and it does seem like she is trying to get attention, but you all are outrageously judgmental.  I truly hope your kids never go through anything like this.

And this is timely https://parentingteensandtweens.com/parenting-teens-means-dealing-with-their-bad-choices/?fbclid=IwAR0Rcx3vQKwa2tiRII2rwptY3_Q3PCFcjJMyR1tt8IULVyeZjVizpRKRbkc[/quote]
More excuses! Does it make the neglect alright because it's a "valid" reason? The child probably has been left to fend for herself for several years now. When was the last time OP spent time with her DD at an activity, game, coffee shop just anything? Hoping OP wakes up and realizes she needs to change her parenting instead of seeking ideas for adding more consequences. Its one thing if the parent was present and the child falters but its something else to just give up and set the child up to fail and say it wouldn't matter anyway![/quote]

Not OP but I just wanted to chime in to say you are a piece of $hit human being.

Judging others asking for help is disgusting.

Walk a mile in a moms shoes that deals with a SN child on top of all the other things.

I mean the f do you think you are? [/quote]

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