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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I loved my experience at a black college that was close to home but wonder what life would be like had I gone Ivy instead of turning them down due to being uncomfortable with moving so far away from home and my desire to experience not being a minority for a change. The college I chose did do wonders for my self confidence and was a nurturing place to grow into an adult and fostered pride I never had before in being Black. I know that was invaluable in shaping who I am today but I still always wonder ....what if.[/quote] On the flip side, I sometimes wish I had gone to an HBCU for the exact reasons you mentioned. Those grads exude a sense of confidence and poise that has always impressed me. They also take such pride in their alma mater - returning for Homecoming etc, whereas I haven't stepped foot on my campus since I graduated. [/quote] I am another PROUD HBCU graduate. Scores of my college friends are doctors, lawyers, corporate execs, SAHM, artists, business owners,etc. They are doing the same things their Ivy Leageu counterparts are doing -- LOTS OF DIFFERENT THINGS. I am not where I intended or where I want to be right now -- but life is what you make it. I am here because of the SUM of the choices I made -- just like everyone else. I don't get the obsession with the Ivy League in this area -- it's not a MAGIC BULLET! It can be a nice start for some -- but it's not going ti guarntee you yur dream life.[/quote]
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