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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cutting off my sister who had major issues- she was a very business smart/ successful- 300K salary but was a mess- she disowned her family- I was her last connection and she stood us up with BS excuse too many times so I told her I was done. It wasn't apparent to use but she was socially controlling with the family in her 20s and grew more so later on. It was like constantly being threatened if you do x you'll never hear from me again- and she really appeared not to care. Anyway- she committed suicide and no my parents are guardians for her messed up 16 year old. It has damaged our family "dynamics" - my mom and I were getting closer but when sister died she got nsty with me beyond belief- and for over a year. Not easy to have a mom telling you that you are crap constantly- before sis died I was so appreciated what I did- now it;s not enoug.[/quote] I'm sorry. Hugs.[/quote] Thanks.. this unfortunately highlighted how far apart DH and I are where i called my friends and talked to them for hours (my male best friend who is a family friend with his wife who is my best friend - for like 4 hours at a time) but nothing with him.. a year later I found (just a a gut= never looked before) emails with an ex which were really sexual- we are in therapy.. Job situation gets iffy and unstable too so it's just been really been a crappy domino effect. Thank God our kids are typical age issues but great.[/quote]
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