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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry. I would feel our trust was broken. As others have stated, he has probably cheated other times.

I have not experienced this with Dh but I used to be in a serious relationship with a guy and I learned into the relationship that he was still seeing other people in the beginning of our relationship and that even hurt. I lost trust in him. I could never fully trust him and that is probably why we ended up not together.[/quote]

I had a serious boyfriend in college who cheated on me for months, then broke up with me for her. She believed that he had broken up with me shortly after he started seeing her.  About six months after that, she found out that he was still going out with me for after she thought he’d ended it with me. She apparently had a fit and broke up with him.

We were all at different colleges, which is how he got away with the two girlfriends at once thing. I had no idea he was seeing someone else. The other girl knew from the beginning but thought he was on track to break up so she’d be the only one.

I know all this now because he came back to me after she broke up with him, but I ended it when I found out the real story. Glad I didn’t get stuck with a guy who was so good at lying. It is shocking when you find out how completely someone can fool you and for such a long time. And worse, of course, when you’re married and have kids. I feel for you, OP, and hope you can get to a better place. 
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