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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SAH here. Dog, what percentage of HHI does she contribute? If she has contributed anywhere near 40 percent throughout the years of your relationship, you are not entitled to say anything to her. You chose to burden her with the financial stress and the lion's share of cleaning, raising kids, and the admin/mental labor involved in creating a modern family. If you make all the money, then you can ask her kindly. She won't like it but at least the very question won't be insane.[/quote]

Not OP, but why would weight be tied to earnings?[/quote]

Not PP but to me, if we’re going to play the “wife needs to stay (my definition of) hot throughout life changes even as she approaches middle age/menopause to satisfy me sexually” game (and OP noted we’re not talking about health issues from morbid obesity, wife is slightly overweight) then we should also play the “husband should provide all financial resources so wife can focus her effort/energy that would have gone to working outside the home and financially supporting the family instead on looking hot” game. [/quote]

Yes (as a female who makes a really good salary but handles the bulk of the mental/admin load).  [/quote]

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