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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like there’s some shame going on. Is there anything on his youth/childhood that might explain this?[/quote]

Op here. Honestly I really don’t think so. He has done all these things before. I think he is really just stuck in his ways at this point. And now that others mentioned it, maybe he is afraid of not being able to perform in other positions. I really don’t know.[/quote]

Dear OP, you must actually have the conversation with your DH, not with us. What is your plan to do so?[/quote]

I have brought up many times that it upsets me. But clearly I have to be more direct in my questioning. I don’t even know how to ask something like that without hurting his feelings in some way though. But I guess that’s what needs to happen.[/quote]

So you haven’t specifically asked for or initiated the position you desire? Just a general let’s try some new things? He’s probably thinking, too much work. Take the lead here. If he has bad knees, ask him to stand while you contort into a position that fits. You both seem passive. Just go for it. If he’s laying down in bed, get him going in whatever way he likes. Quickly get on top. Or sit him in a chair with no arms and straddle. It’s a great option for you to hold onto the back of chair for stability and control. It allows him to go deeper with little exertion. You can face him to start, then easily get into reverse cowgirl. Ok, I’m starting to sound like a freak. But you get the point. [/quote]

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