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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do people really count the number of times they have sex every week?  And is it really that stable?

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I went through a phase where I kept a spreadsheet. I wanted to verify that my perception that we were having less and less sex was actually true. That grew to include notes about who had initiated, what had worked and what had not, reasons for not having sex when initiations failed.

None of this ended up being very good for my mental health. Fixating on sex made the lack of it even more troublesome. [/quote]

Wow.  I’m sorry you went through this.  It honestly kind of sounds like what my sister went through when she and her husband were having trouble TTC.  She did things with the calendar that bordered on voodoo.  It’s hard to live day to day so focused on something that you ultimately have so little control over.  
I hope that things are working out for you! 
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Timing sex around ovulation for conception is not crazy at all. It’s the first step in actively managing fertility for many couples. You sound terribly judgmental and out of your league. Thank your lucky stars you never went through what your sister did. [/quote]

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