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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't give them an opportunity to be mean to you. Ignore them![/quote]

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Come on. Don't be ridiculous. When your kids wants to join in a game at recess and the other girls say "NO!" and run away from you how do you ignore that? Is your solution that the kid who just wants to play should know their place and never even ask? Just sit there on a bench alone? No.[/quote]

This reads like you really want your kid to be in the “in crowd” and are fighting reality. 2nd-3rd grade is old enough for kids to flock towards people they enjoy spending time with. [/quote]

Can we agree to ignore this PP? Saying it’s ok for 7 and 8 year olds to be left out at school because others want to only play with kids they “flock towards” is insane.

Kids don’t have any choice over whether or not they are at school! A certain level of kindness and inclusion in a compulsory education environment should be required and expected by parents.[/quote]

Girl, you are literally telling other posters to ignore me because you don’t like my messaging. You may need to go back to elementary school and get your head on straight. Practice what you preach! don’t hate the player, hate the game![/quote]

She is telling people to ignore a bully.  
  If you want to engage in this behavior and teach your kids to write mean notes or make fun of kids for having special needs, then go for it.

No one has to listen to you tell us why it’s okay.  
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You’re projecting. No one is saying that behavior is okay. [/quote]

We are talking about:

- Excluding other girls 
- Making fun of other girls or boys (verbally or in notes/pictures that are passed around the classroom) 
- Telling kids not to play with or be friends with certain girls or boys.

Many people are saying that it’s okay, developmentally appropriate, and that it isn’t really “mean.”  [/quote]

And their moms are doing this to you also, as per the OP? Means girls and their mean mom? [/quote]

What do you think, pp?  What’s your experience with girls who engage in this behavior?  
Are their moms volunteering at soup kitchens and trying to reach out to recent immigrants to teach them about PowerSchool?

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Yes.  I literally never had another mom from school be “mean” to me.  [/quote]

Me either. Sorry guys, it’s pure projection. They’re just moms living their life , they’re not being mean to you. [/quote]

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