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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the OW who was posting earlier, you said both spouses found emails. Did part of you want to get caught? I think in my husband's emotional affair he did. He talked about her a lot and I think he wanted me to get fed up and confront him. It was awful when it all came out but ultimately I think he wanted my attention.

Was that the same for you? Were you careless? Because it sounds like you wanted to get your DH's attention to. Sounds like you and your DH are doing well and getting through it. [/quote]

It was the OM who was careless.  Maybe he did want to get caught. I don't know.  His DW had asked multiple times about us. And i know he talked about me too much. My DH didn't have a SINGLE clue.  He didn't pay attention enough to notice. He was super surpriSed when it all came out.  Honestly, I wanted the OMs attention only at that point.  DH and I are doing so much better now, but I will be 100% honest   I still think about OM a lot.  I won't ever contact him again but I still have to switch my brain back to my DH.  Whenever I think "Wow I wish I could tell this story to OM". I make sure I switch and say this is someting I need to share with DH.  Make sense?  It's harder to get things down via my phone. [/quote]

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