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[quote=Anonymous]I had an emotional affair with a married man while also married and honestly it's just not about the other person, at least for me it wasn't.  He was sort of a blank space where I could project what I wanted, and I probably could have easily met someone else to fulfill the same function, as could he.  He was tall, charming, funny, and successful, and there are a lot of women with issues who would want validation and attention from someone like that.

It was really fortunate that I found him more endearing than sexually attractive and ended things.  He really, really wanted to take things to the next step of a physical relationship, and I assume he is out there still cheating or trying to cheat on his wife.  She was just a nonentity to him; he didn't have anything mean to say about her but he truly could not care less about his betrayal to her.  Same with me, I was too angry and resentful of my husband to care about what I was doing to him.  It was truly the worst thing I've ever done and I can't quite believe I came so close to a full on affair. [/quote]

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