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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Her decision to move forward stoically without answers, without even talking to the OW DH, is very WASPy, but it could be something else. Many toxic people claim to "have no idea" why they were abadoned, but they were told why, and just would not accept it. Publishing this article is not very WASPy, and it is smelling fishier to me the more I think on it. It makes him look bad, yes, but it makes her look bad too. Why would she do this thing her class has been raised not to do? Seems like an abuser's stance: I'll take you down WITH me. Also I think she's overstating the abandonment of the kids. I would bet he still sees them, but [b]declined to fight for custody of teens, set in their routines and a few years from independence[/b]. That's actually a fine fatherly decision. He also may not have been willing to fight on that point because he knew she'd get vicious and it would hurt the kids further. Total conjecture, but she might be the bad guy, I see plenty of red flags, like it was an abuser/victim role reversal[/quote] The youngest wasn’t a teen. She was 12, and still had 1/3 of her childhood remaining! The author says he did not want custody, period. No guarantee of any holidays or weekend visits or a couple weeks in the summer. That’s not normal.[/quote]
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